Tantra / Spirituality

Polarity the spark of attraction

By Anthony O'Flynn

Tantra is a way of life. Its wisdom is equally applicable today as it was thousands of years ago.

One aspect of Tantra is the integration of opposites. This is the seed for attraction and the essence of polarity. The Sun and the moon, the light and the dark and the plus and the minus are all examples of this duality that characterises this world. Even the very cells of our body are made up of + and – and the entire universe is vibrating with this perennial attraction.

Attraction, spark & polarity

The mystery of attraction and this spark is the essence of polarity. The masculine essence and the feminine essence reflect this magical polarity. Men and women are designed by the cosmic plan to be different. Tantra teaches us to integrate the differences and at a deeper level to celebrate the polarity that the masculine and the feminine offers. Where there is electricity in a relationship, there is polarity.

The cosmic dance

The path of Tantra involves playing this game and dancing the dance of polarity. The union of the masculine and feminine is in essence a cosmic dance.

Ultimately men and women both have a masculine and feminine component, yet practitioners of Tantra seek to amplify the polarity to sustain attraction, which is a major challenge in long-term relationships. One secret of maintaining attraction is to create polarity and understand the masculine/feminine dynamic that we all possess and with increased self-awareness use polarity as a tool for a fulfilling and passionate relationship. This will assist in creating a natural harmony and balance in a relationship with a flow of energy that is self-sustaining and nurturing.

Experiencing wholeness

In essence, polarity is a deeper yearning to feel whole, connected and complete. The Tantric path is simply a method to experience these profound states that we all seek, even if it is unconscious.

To embrace the polarity of energy is to firstly connect with your own being and to celebrate this divine birthright and then your polar opposite will become apparent through this new state of conscious awareness that embodies a deeper level of self-understanding and self-knowledge. One elevated aspect of this divine union is lovemaking, which ultimately is simply a physical expression of the merging of these two polar opposites that fuse into one as the dance deepens and the experience of wholeness compliments and encompasses the lovers.

About the author

Anthony O'Flynn

Holistic Life Coach & Mentor, Educator, Author, Inspirational Speaker, Yoga, Meditation, Tantra & Mindfulness Teacher

Anthony is a true pioneer in the field of modern spirituality. His approach allows him to navigate a broad range of topics and modalities while drawing connections and offering profound insights into consciousness and the spiritual path. Anthony’s purpose is to awaken individuals to the power of the human soul and discover a life of true purpose and inspiration.

His ability to link the ancient and the modern provides a bridge between traditional spirituality and a 21st century lifestyle. His approach is insightful and his audience enjoys his spirited humour, profound knowledge and light-hearted style of communicating timeless truths.

Anthony's message expresses a true wisdom that can only be accumulated by well over 20 years of experience on the path, complete with breakthroughs, mistakes, dead-ends, realisations, acceptance and joy for the profound journey of life.

Anthony regards himself as an eternal student but it is the role of awakener and educator that is apparent through the countless workshops, courses, retreats and events that he facilitates. He is a skilled presenter and speaker with an ability to articulately communicate concepts that ‘stick’ with the audience creating many ‘a-ha’ moments and genuine transformations that represent his unique gift.

As a certified life-coach, Anthony is also passionate about personal development and uses the tool of the Enneagram to support the removing of blocks and assist to inspire his clients to be the best version of themselves. Anthony has embraced the path of Tantra since 1999 and he draws on his extensive experience in this field in the teaching of Tantric sexuality.

After studying at university for six years and completing a Masters in Communications at Monash University in Melbourne, Anthony embarked on a global expedition travelling across the globe. Anthony’s life-long interest in mysticism dramatically intensified on a trip to India in 1999, where he began to practice yoga and meditation. This turning point led to a deeper spiritual integration and led Anthony to spend more than two years of his life in India. Anthony deeply immersed himself in the practice of yoga, meditation and studied numerous diverse paths and topics related to spirituality.

Anthony is also the Director of the Paradigm Shift Summit, which is a movement of socially and spiritually aware people who recognise that an awakening is occurring as humanity evolves to a higher more elevated level of consciousness. The Paradigm Shift movement is an expression of the goal of assisting humanity transform to a new level of awareness during this critical transition.

Anthony feels a deep gratitude to live as a spiritual practitioner. He enjoys communicating this critical message and continues to help inspire others to make choices to maximise their own happiness while developing the tranquility of inner peace, presence and true wisdom.